A 32-year-old woman turned to Reddit for guidance after a recurring issue with her 39-year-old boyfriend and his two kids left her feeling frustrated and taken advantage of.
The couple had been together for nine months, enjoying regular dinner dates with the kids. However, a pattern emerged where the boyfriend would “forget” his credit card, leaving the woman to foot the bill.
At first, she was understanding, but as the months went by and she found herself paying for multiple dinners solo, she realized the financial strain was too much to bear.
The final straw came when her boyfriend “forgot” his wallet again, prompting her to leave the restaurant without eating. This led to a heated argument, with her boyfriend accusing her of being selfish and depriving his kids of food.
Reddit users weighed in, suggesting that the boyfriend might be taking advantage of her financially and advising her to reevaluate the relationship.
The question on everyone’s mind: was she justified in leaving the dinner, or should she have paid and addressed the issue later? This incident sparked a larger conversation about boundaries in relationships and financial responsibilities. Where do you draw the line?