When my husband, Jake, presented me with a schedule to “improve” my wifely duties, I could have easily reacted with anger. Instead, I chose to take a different approach – one that would teach him a valuable lesson.
Jake’s newfound ideas were courtesy of his coworker Steve, who believed wives should prioritize household chores and appearance above all else.
The list Jake handed me was nothing short of absurd, outlining an unrealistic daily routine that would have me catering to his every whim. But I didn’t let it get to me.
Instead, I crafted my own list, “Jake’s Plan for Becoming the Best Husband Ever,” filled with equally ridiculous demands, including a hefty salary increase and personal trainer.
When Jake saw the list, his expression changed from smug to shocked. He realized too late that his expectations were not only sexist but also unaffordable.
I seized the opportunity to explain that a successful marriage is built on mutual respect, not outdated gender roles or schedules.
Jake apologized, and together, we shredded the list, reminded that marriage is a partnership, not a competition. This experience taught us both a valuable lesson – one that will strengthen our bond and foster a more equal, loving relationship.